And I have plenty of reason to be from my past ....
With my partner nearly two years. We dont live together, are completely
Committed and talk about our future.
We won't live together until our children are grown up.
We had a chat today. He said he is happy with eow and. Night or two during alternate weeks. He said he doesn't feel under pressure because we have this arrangement and loves it as do I.
We spoke about commitment and asked him that in the past , he felt scared of commitment .
He said. That yes ,When it came
To the final nudge he sometimes
Felt stressed but not anymore as
We are both in the same
Page .
Sometimes when we talk
The heavy stuff he deflects with humour . I don't let him
Away with that and push our conversations and he responds .
He shows me love every single day. He is utterly committed to us and
Is a
Man of his word .
He says he is mad about me, loves me, loves our relationship, loves that we are best friends but
Yet I feel that he is ultimately afraid of
Commitment .
AIBU to think
That he is being flaky or just truthful