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Gutted a new house is being built directly facing my back garden?

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mentalhealth323 · 29/03/2022 11:39

I know this is a first world problem and the whole process I’ve deliberately not been a biased nimby.

Progress must happen, people need houses and don’t ever buy a house for the view (if you don’t own it).

I bloody well love my house, it’s nothing fancy, I’m not the greatest area but the back garden is long and very private. The USP for the house was the garden (ex council post war house) and the element of privacy.

Being able to go into the garden in a towel to grab clean washing, gardening in a bikini, work out without having to worry that I can only manage one push up…. Drink wine for five nights straight listening to my guilty playlist.

It looks like it’s going to be finalised (there’s already construction workers placing flags outside) and there’s going to be a huge three storey house built 10ms away from my garden fence directly opposite my house. Their fence will be on my boundary. There’s no way of blocking them from having the perfect view of 100% of my garden.

I didn’t contest the planning permission as they’re building facilities/didn’t want to be a nimby - it’s also a nationwide new build company and the council was very much on board… didn’t think we’d have a leg to stand on. I’ve known for the plans for a couple of weeks and I’m absolutely gutted/can’t shake it off.

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EvilPea · 31/03/2022 16:34

I’m so sorry it’s shit. I rent and our last house was sold to developers. It was heartbreaking to think of all the wildlife friends we had made and encouraged to live there that were losing their home without notice. I literally grieved over that one.

Try and mitigate the loss for wildlife, bird, bat boxes, hedgehog holes, leave a bit of grass to go wild plant lots for the insects etc.
Running water and trees are good to block out noise (E.g building work!) so get a pond or water feature.

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