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Not happy in relationship but not sure what to do

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AgnesWestern · 26/03/2022 17:31

I’m desperately unhappy in my relationship.
My DP is so miserable all the time and isn’t particularly nice to me. No actual abuse but just snapping a lot and being generally unpleasant.

I don’t have any savings other than my share in the house, we’re not married and we have a 3 year old.
I left my job last year as I’ve been struggling with my mental health.
I’m not sure what to do. I feel really trapped.

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DollyPartBaked · 26/03/2022 17:59

I would try to focus on yourself and get yourself in a good position (MH wise - if you can whilst staying where you are) and then get out.

Duracellbunnywannabe · 26/03/2022 18:05

Sort your mental health out first then consider relationship counselling.

Thumpkin · 26/03/2022 18:07

Have you tried to talk to him about how you feel? Is he aware of how awful he is at the moment?

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