It's time to LTB isn't it

[Imaysnapandfart]

DP and I have been together for 3 years, not living together as both have kids from previous marriages and couldn't afford a place big enough for all of us. We've had our ups and downs, he cheated on me once and I forgave him. We generally get on but lately we've had a couple of fights.

The other weekend we were away for a minibreak, had an argument and he ended up leaving me in the middle of an unknown town on my own at ten o'clock at night. I was fuming and nearly ended it there but then we made up.

Cut to this week, he's tested positive, and doesn't think there's a problem with the fact that he's gone out and about without even a mask (he has cold symptoms). (posted about this yesterday) I suddenly feel like I actually don't like or respect someone who has beliefs so far away from my own. I mean it's hardly the fairytale is it. What do you think Vipers? Do I work at it or LTB?

The cheating alone would have been a dealbreaker for me OP, but obviously you worked through it at the time.
Given what he’s done since, I’d LTB definitely.

you've given no reasons for why anyone would respond and say you should work at the relationship. you don't need permission to cut your losses and have already made up your mind.

Mumsnet cliche but true for all that:
“When someone shows you who he is - believe him.”
Your “D”P has shown you that he is an unfaithful selfish shit, prepared to dump you alone in a strange town at night, without caring for your safety, cheating on you, fighting with you, and infecting vulnerable people with Covid. What an absolute charmer. LTB.

It's time to LTB isn't it

Yes.

Yes it is, sorry OP.