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Do you kiss your partner

78 replies

Lockeddownagain · 14/03/2022 22:27

How often do you kiss each other, any sort of kiss ?

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Sunpotter · 14/03/2022 22:31

Kiss or... 'Snog'?

Kiss maybe 4/5 times a day... Not sure, will count tomorrow haha.

Sunpotter · 14/03/2022 22:32

Sorry, I see you said any kind of kiss.

Why do you ask?

AnneLovesGilbert · 14/03/2022 22:32

Many times a day. Big fan.

steff13 · 14/03/2022 22:33

I'm separated, but before, yes. First thing in the morning, before leaving for work, upon coming home. Then other times too.

ImInStealthMode · 14/03/2022 22:34

Several pecks a day, decent snogs a few times a week.

TheSmallAssassin · 14/03/2022 22:34

Always before we go to sleep or if one of us leaves the house. And random other times, but I would like more Smile

Ponoka7 · 14/03/2022 22:35

I've gone off kissing. We are in our 50's. Once a day does me now.

Haggisfish3 · 14/03/2022 22:35

Loads. Pecks and snogs. Like at least three of each a day.

bellsbuss · 14/03/2022 22:38

Quick peck in the morning before he goes to work , a cuddle and a kiss when he comes home and a smooch in bed most nights.

Sorbitol · 14/03/2022 22:42

Don't remember. The last time was probably about 6 months ago. He did kiss my head today so maybe we can rescue our relationship.

Smellyporcupine · 14/03/2022 22:42

Never, well maybe once a month. I just don't think you kiss when you've been together a long time. We have small children too. I kiss them loads, so maybe that's just me I'm touched out so don't need it.

Yamyam13 · 14/03/2022 22:47

Random snogs are rare, usually reserved for friskier times (sorry gross) - pecks are maybe 1 a day?
More would be nice but its mutual, just busy and tired etc.

RoyKentsChestHair · 14/03/2022 22:50

When I was with my DP we saw each other 3-4 days a week. We’d kiss hello and goodbye, good morning and good night, lean over for a kiss while watching tv, have a cuddle and a kiss while the kettle was boiling, obviously before and during sex. I miss kissing him Sad

EmpressSuiko · 14/03/2022 22:56

Yes we kiss every day, I don’t know if it makes any difference but we’ve been together over 13 years.

Nikolaus · 14/03/2022 22:57

Not really. We are more a hug/cuddle type, so I will give them a really big close hug before I go somewhere, but not really a kiss.

We don't kiss much during sex either tbh, just sometimes.

Nikolaus · 14/03/2022 22:58

I don't get much satisfaction sexually out of open-mouthed kissing anyway. Neck kissing though.... Blush

TirednessButHappiness · 14/03/2022 23:04

A peck a few times a week. Very rarely a full on snog.

JustGettingReady · 14/03/2022 23:04

Another multiple times a day here. We snog quite a lot and always peck throughout the day. We're a very tactile couple though. We're well over a decade in too, so the way we are isn't due to us being in any honeymoon phase.

TurtlesAndTropicalFish · 14/03/2022 23:06

Kiss whenever we feel like it, not necessarily every day but it often is. Snog probably mostly when we have sex rather only.

I remember a time when we would snog on the train escalator to work every day. The whole escalator trip. Lol. That does seem ridiculous now though 😂

Blossomtoes · 14/03/2022 23:08

Lots, multiple times a day. We hug lots too. We’re probably still as tactile with each as we were when we first got together 24 years ago. Sex has pretty much gone though - damn you, menopause.

DontLookBackInAnger1 · 14/03/2022 23:09

Quick kiss on lips maybe few times a week.

Snog, with tongues, maybe once/twice a month.

We've been together over 10 years with young children so we just don't do it much anymore.

Also, as I grow older, I find sharing saliva much less appealing!

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 14/03/2022 23:10

Quite a lot. At least a few times a day. Snogs quite a lot too. Been together 20 years

Haggisfish3 · 14/03/2022 23:10

I’ve been with dp for 23 years.

Norgie · 14/03/2022 23:18

Tonsil tennis several times a day when he's at home.

justsatfloating · 14/03/2022 23:25

It's been over 10 years since I snogged my DH, pecks maybe 1-2 a week.

I overlooked the fact he wasn't a great kisser for all of his other lovely traits. Can't say I miss it with him.

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