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AIBU?

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Is this reasonable contact ???

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Mummybunnie2000 · 10/03/2022 20:00

My DS is 15 months old. Arrangements in place is for his dad to have him 3 x a week for 2 hours. And every 3rd Sunday for 5 hours. His dad works and my son goes to bed at 7 so there’s a small window of time in the week anyway. My ex partner chose these times and days but is now saying he wants to change it and it’s only been in place for a week! We previously had to cut down the times because he was being such a let down. Please tell me AIBU????? (My son is breastfed so we both agree no overnights at the min)

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JeffThePilot · 10/03/2022 20:23

At that age, little and often is usually best for the child and their developing relationships, I’d say it looks like a sensible arrangement to me.

Mummybunnie2000 · 10/03/2022 20:35

@JeffThePilot totally agree.. he thinks the world is against him and can not possibly see how this is reasonable even though he suggested it! I think it’s enough time and my son wouldn’t benefit from anymore time as he is extremely attached

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