Sex with partner gave me the ick. Please tell me we’re not doomed

[worriedaboutmytoddler]

Away with my family and this is our last night. Partner and I started being intimate but I felt him up against me and I suddenly froze and just felt icky. Told him I didn’t want to and he said okay. I then felt better and decided I wanted to. While we were doing it I got the ick again.

Never felt like this before, still love him of course; but being intimate was just... no. Are we doomed?

On holiday?

Stress?

Any obvious reason?

Sorry but getting the ick is usually permanent

(In process of separation here)

What do you think has changed recently? Has anything happened that’s put you off him? It could just be your hormones or something, but if it continues I’m afraid it’s just the unexplainable ick!

Is it a case of one minute, being horny then the next it wears off, and it's like omg what are we doing etc ?

I imagine it's because you know family's nearby?
I'd give it a few more tries once home then you'll know!