Just want to check if I'm in the right ballpark or if I really am the mean mother (what DD12 thinks - apparently no-one else has these limits etc etc).
I think it's been getting out of hand - she does little else at home, often grumpy, doesn't engage with us much, so am trying to limit to 5 hours a schoolday on her phone. I think this is still too much, but with the hour she spends on it before school she hits it easily.