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Is it rude to laugh in libraries?

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OldClothes · 20/02/2022 21:40

I was in a library last week which is part of a university campus, and I noticed there were a group of girls laughing quite loudly in the quiet study area. A couple of them got up to look at something on someone's screen.

Is it rude to laugh in a quiet study area, or would it not bother you?

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HeechulOppa · 20/02/2022 21:47

It’s the volume that would be inappropriate, not the laughing and also the fact that uni libraries are more set up these days for serious study rather than as a community hub, which many public libraries are these days (former librarian). So laughing not a problem per se, but loudness in a study environment is

OldClothes · 20/02/2022 21:50

Volume wise, they were loud enough to hear from some metres away but not so loud that everyone was looking, if you see what I mean.

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reluctantbrit · 20/02/2022 21:50

If it is a dedicated study area I would be annoyed and do hope the staff is keeping an eye on it.

A public library with a children section and people browing = no problem at all.

OldClothes · 20/02/2022 21:52

To clarify, this was a section with desktop computers, not tables for reading etc.

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OldClothes · 20/02/2022 22:06

It didn't especially bother me, I'm just curious.

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EeeICouldRipATissue · 20/02/2022 22:16

I love libraries
Surely it's common knowledge you be quiet in them though?!
Loud laughing or talking in them would annoy me.
People are usually there to study or read /browse in peace.

OldClothes · 21/02/2022 09:38

@EeeICouldRipATissue

I love libraries Surely it's common knowledge you be quiet in them though?! Loud laughing or talking in them would annoy me. People are usually there to study or read /browse in peace.
I guess so - but I sometimes the norms may be different on campuses.
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spotcheck · 21/02/2022 09:41

If it's a quiet study space, I would just do a discreet ' shhhhh'

Some libraries are a bit louder, but definitely not the quiet study space!

Topseyt · 21/02/2022 09:45

If it is a designated quiet study area then it shouldn't be happening. If it isn't then fine as long as it isn't long, loud and raucous.

Thewindwhispers · 21/02/2022 09:53

Thing is many students have tiny bedrooms and the library becomes a social soace almost like a living room…

I was really surprised at uni when I went to the library and found how social it was!

incognitoforthisone · 21/02/2022 10:16

I think it really depends on the library and the situation. Most librarians will tell you that you really don't have to be quiet in a public library these days, but a study area or reading room in a university library is a different matter I think. Unless it's designed as a collaborative workspace.

It wouldn't bother me as a one-off, though. I'd only be irritated by if they'd settled in for an hour-long chat or something. A quick chuckle at something on a computer screen wouldn't be something I'd even remember, to be honest.

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