I am supposed to be driving 120 miles from London to Worcestershire today to an appointment with a solicitor regarding my late mother's estate and to collect her ashes. I would be meeting my brother who will also be driving a similar distance. Given the Met Office warnings, I have made the rather late decision not to go, but cannot contact my brother at the moment to tell him (phone turned off). Am I being reasonable or am I being a wimp not going? Supposing my brother doesn't pick up his messages and decides to set off in the morning (I am the one with all the necessary papers for the appointment)? For context, it is a journey I am very familiar with driving, but I am getting on a bit (almost 70) so maybe a bit vulnerable. Feeling worried about letting him down, breaking appointments versus possible danger versus being seen as overreacting to the possible danger!