To not want to share my dessert?

[LionGiraffeMonkey]

What the hell is romantic about sharing my dessert?

Urgh. Nothing at all!

Fuck all.
I'm with you. Come near my pudding I'm stabbing you with my fork!

Nothing!! I don't love my husband that much 🤣

I don't like the concept of sharing dessert, but I can get behind sampling each other's. Just a bite.

Special ire for those who say they don't want a dessert and then start tucking into yours.

Absolutely nothing. Stay away from my dessert

At a Christmas meal out, DH tried to suggest we shared a dessert because he'd had a starter. Erm no that's my problem, how exactly?

@Classica

Special ire for those who say they don't want a dessert and then start tucking into yours.

I'm not a dessert person but I wouldn't tuck into others 😂,I would rather have two starters tbh .

DH and I have been laughing about this all afternoon after seeing an advert in the window of a local restaurant that had 'shared desserts' on their special Valentines menu.

We reckon this is more of an argument causer than romantic.

Sorry bucking the trend here, I steal Dp's dessert, I always decline then he offers ...

if a sharing dessert is offered i ask for two plates as no way im digging into a pudding that my OH has dipped his spoon into after its been in his mouth

You are not the DP of another poster by any chance are you ? he would not give his partner another scoop ( yes scoop ) of Venita

I dont mind them having a small sample , ie we both have cheese cake and want to compare the raspberry to the strawberry flavour , but other that that joey docent share

@gogohm

Sorry bucking the trend here, I steal Dp's dessert, I always decline then he offers ...

Get your own.

@gogohm

Sorry bucking the trend here, I steal Dp's dessert, I always decline then he offers ...

Well there's a spot in the seventh circle of hell reserved for you!

Jesus I'd LTB for less. Luckily my DH is of the same opinion so it's separate desserts all round

Nope, if you want a dessert fucking order one!

I don't eat pudding very often so when I do it's all mine.

@Isseywith3witchycats

if a sharing dessert is offered i ask for two plates as no way im digging into a pudding that my OH has dipped his spoon into after its been in his mouth

umm I presume you are happy to kiss and have sex but not sharing a desert because the spoon has been in his mouth then in the pud ?

Odd but each to there own I guess

Me and DP always share a pudding.

We always share starters too

Sometimes when we go to one specific place I get a dessert eat some and then oh finishes it as I can't. The portions are massive and I always leave a fair bit of my main to have room for dessert. I am not usually a competitive under eater BTW!

YANBU.

On the rare occasion I find something that fits with Celiac Disease and Dairy intolerance, it's mine - ALL mine.

No fucker is having 'just a bit' of the only thing I've found that doesn't cause my insides to turn outside and won't make me ill for weeks afterwards. Except DP, because I know he would have one taste if offered and not want any more than that if he didn't outright refuse.

@AllThingsServeTheBeam

Me and DP always share a pudding.

We always share starters too

I'm glad you found one another.

If I order a dessert I do not want to share.

However, given that neither child ever finishes their dessert, and DH is not that reliable either, my standard dessert order is a spoon.

We always share. But then again we both have one so I get 2 desserts really.

If I don't have room for a pudding in a restaurant my DH always asks for two forks with his without me needing to say anything and I come from a family of food sharers. But YANBU, I can see lots of reasons why people might not want someone else digging into their food.

if a sharing dessert is offered i ask for two plates as no way im digging into a pudding that my OH has dipped his spoon into after its been in his mouth

I mean, I'm not a fan of sharing either unless we have one each and try the other but presumably this is a man you're sleeping with