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What to say to all this

9 replies

Peachplum29 · 12/02/2022 09:27

Hi,

I understand this seems really ridiculous but these are genuine messages I have been receiving amongst many others, including paragraphs of how ‘perfect’ and ‘special’ he thinks I am.

I have recently started chatting to a guy, we have only been speaking just under a week but we have arranged to meet. he seemed nice at first but almost out of no where he has been sending messages such as ‘just think after this date I will want to be with you 24/7 365’ ‘I think we have a strong connection, I can see us being happy, I can actually see a future with you’ ‘so excited to meet you and spend all my time with you, going to treat you like a princess, take you out, weekends away you can have it all’ ‘I think this is meant to be and think this will work out between us’ and lots of other messages, all this is just from chatting to him, he says I seem ‘special’. I’m quite concerned about it tbh, because it’s too much, far too soon, haven’t even had the date yet but he claims he senses good things between us. What shall I say to him?

OP posts:
Teeturtle · 12/02/2022 09:29

You’ve changed your mind. Then block.

stonebrambleboy · 12/02/2022 09:29

Run like the wind.

DorothyZbornakIsAQueen · 12/02/2022 09:30

Say to him you have changed your mind about the date as he is too full on!!! Then block him.

He sounds deranged.

Do NOT meet up with him.

Peachplum29 · 12/02/2022 09:30

Also one the most concerning messages I told him about a hobby I have that I do weekly and he put ‘I’ll be seeing you there😂’ and the thing is it doesn’t seem like that’s a joke either.

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SuperSleepyBaby · 12/02/2022 09:30

Seems a bit much and strange!

pinkyredrose · 12/02/2022 09:31

Say 'woah slow down, we haven't even met yet'!.

AuntyJanet · 12/02/2022 09:31

Er, yeah, after a week and not even having met? I’d run. A mile. Or three. Very very fast.

scaredsadandstuck · 12/02/2022 09:32

Block. Right. Now.

AtrociousCircumstance · 12/02/2022 09:32

Say sorry something has come up, I can’t make the date. And then block.

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