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Believing in things are meant to be

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Sportslady44 · 29/01/2022 14:22

I believe in fate and everything is meant to be but I dont know why?

Do you believe in things happen for a reason?

If so whats the reason they happen and happen when they do?

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VickyEadieofThigh · 29/01/2022 14:24

Accepting what happens is healthy, but things being "meant to be" - no, I don't believe that at all.

ShirleyPhallus · 29/01/2022 14:24

I don’t believe that every single thing is meant to be, there are some very unfair things in life and I think it would be unfair to assume cruelty is a part of a bigger plan

But I do believe in making the most of opportunity and that sometimes things that don’t happen work out all the better for it

I also believe in the general pattern of life continuing in the right direction

blyn72 · 29/01/2022 14:32

I agree with Shirley.

oklets · 29/01/2022 22:35

I agree with previous posters. Sometimes life is far too cruel and unfair to believe things are meant to be, and this can be an unkind perspective to someone going through a really difficult time. That said, I do believe in trying to overcome difficulty in life and make the best of things.

littlebilliie · 30/01/2022 06:35

We tend to believe in fate when things go well. Interesting we still refer back to luck and the fates which is an Ancient Greek belief system

Allpenguinsarepingus · 30/01/2022 07:27

Nope and I find it really hard to understand why some people do.
Are you good at maths OP? I always imagine people who believe things happen for a reason must find probability in particular difficult. But I could be wrong about that. It would make an interesting survey.

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