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Are gender affirming procedures mostly for people who aren’t trans

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Ylfa · 29/01/2022 08:24

IE breast enhancement, fillers and other stuff to the face to make it look more young womanly, dieting and exercise to create and maintain a shape that conforms to ideals of femininity or ‘roids and bulking up in the gym for the chaps.

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Calvinlookingforhobbes · 29/01/2022 08:28

I think they’re for anyone who wants them or has been conditioned to think they do. I very much conform to my gender but don’t engage with any of that at all.

Ylfa · 29/01/2022 09:32

Yeah I get that, I just never thought of any of it as gender affirming until today. Now I can’t unsee it, it’s everywhere!

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SportsMother · 29/01/2022 09:33

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Ylfa · 29/01/2022 09:37

@SportsMother

I think they are for the doctor’s bank balance.
Oh yeah that is everything isn’t it
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Onionpatch · 29/01/2022 09:38

I think so. I have had a big problem with the breast enhancement industry. I wont go into it in detail but i think there is a link between sexual abuse when a child and some of these procedures. (Not all obviously)

Porcupineintherough · 29/01/2022 09:39

I'm not sure the things you mention are done to "affirm gender" I'd say they were mostly done to maintain or augment sexual attractiveness.

Ylfa · 29/01/2022 09:51

Yeah of course but that’s so bound up with gender norm expression isn’t it? Or is it?

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anothersmahedmug · 29/01/2022 09:57

The shape that are deemed attractive do vary over time so there must be an element of gender ( society expectations) in there

Tywin · 12/11/2022 18:56

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