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Angry he involved his ex

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Jellypop44 · 21/01/2022 20:38

My boyfriend kept some emotional baggage regarding his ex from me when we met. I couldn't quite work out the reason they kept in touch and eventually I clicked on he was still processing things and still wanted her support.

She was jealous when we first met and tried go suggest I wasn't good enough.

I went on my old twitter tonight and saw her profile. I clicked on it. I saw a post of her reporting my boyfriends car for him a few months back. He wrote it off and the the company wouldn't cooperate. My heart was pounding seeing the pictures and realising he has gone to her for support when he Already had me helping him.

He's asleep but I've just text him and said I clicked on her page and saw she was reporting it and why did he go to her and why didn't he tell me she helped.

I'm shaking with anger. I feel like he's so sneaky and never tells me the truth about her.

Would you be annoyed? They split 3 years ago ago and she has never been happy he's met me

OP posts:
irrate · 22/01/2022 16:15

No one needs this much support from an ex op. sorry to say this but unless they have kids there is no reason for him to behave like this either he isn't over her or she has some sort of hold over him and you will always come 2nd in his life.

Life is too short for these games give yourself some dignity and end it with him, you will never truly trust him if he keeps running to her for 'support'.

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