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To wonder why he’s not talking to me?

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Nickyicky · 21/01/2022 19:30

So my boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship. We see each other every other weekend at the moment. We talk every day, not all day just a greeting in the morning then catch up and the end of the day, sometimes we chat loads, other times just a check in.

Anyway for the past week he’s been quite lax in talking to me, he still checked in still affectionate but it’s changed. He said hes been stressed so I just said I hope he feels better soon. Yesterday after patchy communication he called me, it felt awkward and I didn’t have much to say. He’s living through a renovation and had no heating, I asked him how the house was and if he had heating. He said he doesn’t know why I would ask him about something that I know stresses him out the most. Then he said he’s going.

I text him a bit later asking about valentines as we planned to spend the weekend and the day together, I said I’ll get a babysitter Saturday night, he text me to say to do what.
Confused I just said anything. We haven’t spoken but we’re due to meet tomorrow. Wth

OP posts:
Flocon · 21/01/2022 19:35

Maybe the beginning of the end. Or maybe he's just stressed.

Sparklesocks · 21/01/2022 19:40

He might just be tired with the renovation work or maybe he’s checking out of your relationship. None of us can possibly know I’m afraid, you need to speak to him. Maybe tomorrow when you’re face time face?

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