Aibu to want to eventually wrap up friendships where it's always me who organises lunches/nights out/coffees etc?! It gets to the point where with certain friends it's always me - they are keen to go and do go and we enjoy ourselves and say yes let's do it again really soon. Then nothing - until or unless I sort it out again ask/book etc., it all starts to feel task heavy and one-sided. Is it because they don't want to go out with me? Or are too lazy to organise it?!