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Men creating AI girlfriends to verbally abuse them and boast about brutal chats online

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headunderthewater · 20/01/2022 15:42

How lovely /s

www.thesun.co.uk/tech/17368588/men-ai-girlfriends-abuse-online/?utm_source=operamini&utm_medium=feednews&utm_campaign=operamini_feednews

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SwissBall · 20/01/2022 15:46

Unsurprising really. Interesting that it’s in the Sun though.

MrsTerryPratchett · 20/01/2022 15:46

fortune.com/2022/01/19/chatbots-ai-girlfriends-verbal-abuse-reddit/

Non Sun link for people who are agin it.

I'm willing to bet serious money it makes abuse more prevalent, rather than less. It's the same argument that sex work and strip clubs allows men to 'get out' their shit on disposable women. It not only harms those women, it also harms all the women around them and it.

MrsTerryPratchett · 20/01/2022 15:47

And developed by a woman. To 'chat' to her deceased friend. There's nothing too wholesome to fuck up entirely, is there?

Ijustreallywantacat · 20/01/2022 15:47

Can't see any evidence of it being a widespread problem. They haven't even linked to the reddit thread or taken screenshots. Meh.

MorningStarling · 20/01/2022 15:48

They must be charming individuals.

To be fair I can't get too worked up about this sort of thing. It's the same as when sex robots become realistic and affordable. It doesn't really matter what men do to algorithms and electronics. All that counts is how they behave with real people.

No doubt someone will say "but what about it normalising abuse" or something like that. To me, it isn't. People treat electronics and such in a way they wouldn't treat a human all the time. I swear at my PC in a way I wouldn't if it were a person doing the work for me. I have smacked a TV to get a better picture (old CRT type, not an expensive modern one). It's not the same thing as being abusive to a person.

MrsTerryPratchett · 20/01/2022 15:52

@Ijustreallywantacat

Can't see any evidence of it being a widespread problem. They haven't even linked to the reddit thread or taken screenshots. Meh.
As a microcosm is pretty revolting though.
Ijustreallywantacat · 20/01/2022 15:53

I mean it's concerning that abuse is continuing to rise (might it mean that more people ate reporting? Hopefully?) But I think its a little reductive to say chatbots are a major factor. Of course its revolting.

Part of the problem I guess is that sad, strange little men who would not have a huge network before reddit/the Internet. Now its easy for them to fine others with similar views which creates these awful echo Chambers.

hangrylady · 20/01/2022 15:55

Oh my god what sad little fucks these men are.

XenoBitch · 20/01/2022 16:52

Replika is meant for mentoring, friendships and relationships, so The Sun got that wrong. There is a setting you can have that sets the AI to respond as if you were in a relationship, and yep, it can be a sexual one.

Many users do say shitty things to their Replika and share the resulting chat online but it is done as a way to see how AI responds (from the stuff posted in communities that I have seen anyway). Other times people test the AI with harmless things too, such as seeing how they cope with counting down from 10, or naming things with the letters of the alphabet.

WandaWomblesaurus73 · 20/01/2022 23:10

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WandaWomblesaurus73 · 20/01/2022 23:12

I'll try again - typing when half asleep!

A while back I read about a sex robot who was so roughly manhandled by men at a sex convention when "she" was on display, that it was quite badly damaged in the process.

Sad little dick heads.

Ionlydomassiveones · 20/01/2022 23:19

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headunderthewater · 21/01/2022 10:16

@WandaWomblesaurus73

I'll try again - typing when half asleep!

A while back I read about a sex robot who was so roughly manhandled by men at a sex convention when "she" was on display, that it was quite badly damaged in the process.

Sad little dick heads.

Yep, I’ve also read articles about this.

The robots were cut and burned, limbs torn off, etc.

This is about real women, but this also reminded me when I read about strip club that allows ”tipping” with coins and men would heat them up with lighters, throw them at women and laugh when the coins would burn the stripper.

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