I need a shell. Since I started menopause early I can't keep with being touched or breathed on. My son is very average qnd is five years old qnd very wriggly. He likes to put his feet on me and hug but I can't stand his little scratch toe nails or having anything on me. It gives me a hot flash. He is also very hugely. My poor husband tried to snuggle up at night qnd I can't stand breath on me. I'm going mad and think I HRT. I don't feel down or anything but every sense just get jarred by close proximity....anyone relate?