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Forgot about job interview

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Burnt0utMum · 12/01/2022 20:57

I had an interview a couple of weeks back for a job I think would be really good for me. I don't have much experience in the actual role but enough other experience to be able to develop into it. I seemed to do well as they invited me for a second interview. Only, I forgot about it until an hour after it had ended. Completely my fault and I feel so ashamed and disappointed in myself. I've recently been diagnosed with anxiety and have been so focused on trying to manage that. I thought the interview was a few days later than it actually was and as I started to plan for it, realised I'd missed it. The recruiter has managed to get me another interview with the employer, which I am very thankful for but have I already ruined my chances by not showing up the first time? How do I handle it and give myself a chance of still getting the job?

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OpposableThumbs2 · 12/01/2022 22:08

My DH got a job where he forgot to go to the interview. I think the employer thought that the recruitment agency had screwed up rather than him.

2018SoFarSoGreat · 12/01/2022 22:08

Don't feel bad, OP. It happens more than you'd think.

I would simply - as I am greeting them - say: Thank you for rescheduling; I do appreciate your generosity.

Then go on and shine! Good luck.

RedpepperRisotto · 12/01/2022 22:14

I'm part of the recruitment team at my work and I had a "no show" last week. The candidate had been put forward via an agency so I contacted the agency to say she hadn't turned up (on zoom). The agency were very apologetic and said the candidate got the time wrong. I could see the time on the invite, so it was definitely the candidate's error. I agreed to rearrange for a few days later, it can happen.
Strange one though as she didn't apologise, or even mention the previous slot.

DreamingofTimbuktu · 12/01/2022 22:35

If they cared about it they wouldn’t have agreed to see you. Though I would consider why they are so flexible maybe they are struggling to fill the role, remember it’s a two way process

PegasusReturns · 13/01/2022 16:27

I've read a tip about things like this. Don't say "sorry I missed the last one", instead say "thanks for agreeing to reschedule"

I’m afraid this would really irritate me. When you’ve made a mistake a little humility goes a long way.

RedpepperRisotto · 13/01/2022 18:35

I completely agree. The person who was a no show for me, then didn't even mention it when I made another slot for her, was a no. Attitude will at least get you in, or out.

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