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Past abuse and came across disturbing photos

6 replies

Queenie6655 · 08/01/2022 20:21

Hello all

Not sure if I should let this lie
But
My ex is up in court soon due to DV attempted murder etc

Before we broke up we were printing off pics from his phone
I scrolled back to the year before we met and came across some disturbing shots of his ex g f - he took them when she didn't know
For eg bending over
Down her top etc
She appears to be unaware

Do I leave it
Or tell her?

I'm worried he will think I am just using this against him with case few months away??

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LibrariesGiveUsPower · 08/01/2022 20:23

Do you have a lawyer? If so I’d ask them. Otherwise ask the prosecutor.

LostForWords2021 · 08/01/2022 20:24

How do you feel about passing the info to the police to deal with?

I think you most probably have enough on your plate right now without this as well.

Queenie6655 · 08/01/2022 20:27

Ok yes good points

Not sure what I would do next

Feels like I should maybe leave it
She would be horrified also but how dare he the dirty so and so

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ibuiltahomeforyou · 08/01/2022 20:28

I wouldn't make any contact about him without speaking to your police officer as there are already active proceedings so it could look like you're trying to prejudice the case.

Sending you solidarity.

secular39 · 08/01/2022 20:31

Leave it and concentrate on yourself. You have enough going on.

Queenie6655 · 08/01/2022 20:32

Yes guys so true

Will leave it

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