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To find “the lost daughter” hard to watch

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Bluesarestillblue · 06/01/2022 12:48

Olivia Coleman playing the character is making me feel so awkward. Like I can actually feel how the character is feeling. I can feel her awkwardness right through the film.

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heldinadream · 06/01/2022 13:06

I thought it was a lovely film OP and so well crafted. I've since seen very varied views on it, lots of people are upset by it and others just mystified. I can understand feeling it deeply like you have.
Do you feel, on balance, that you like it and you'd recommend it or was it too disturbing for you?

LiterallyKnowsBest · 06/01/2022 13:07

There are already at least three threads on this film!

LiterallyKnowsBest · 06/01/2022 13:11

Not that you shouldn’t post another one - but there’s lots of discussion already, which you may miss!

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/_chat/4441749-The-Lost-Daughter-on-Netflix-Does-anyone-understand-it-Spoilers?msgid=113834311

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/films/4440604-The-Lost-Daughter-Contains-Spoilers-Title-edited-by-MNHQ?msgid=113795395

  • Another I can’t immediately locate.
Bluesarestillblue · 06/01/2022 13:14

@heldinadream I only managed to watch about 10 minutes as I felt so uncomfortable. She reminds me of myself when I sometimes feel awkward: I imagine it’s a bit of a universal feeling

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heldinadream · 06/01/2022 13:17

@Bluesarestillblue oh I'm sorry you couldn't watch it. I honestly think it's a good and worthwhile film and tackles one of the last taboos - how ambivalent mothers may be about their children, and about being a mother, whilst still loving them deeply.
Thanks @LiterallyKnowsBest for the links to the other threads! Smile

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