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Only Fans help

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uhohfsake · 02/01/2022 09:28

Ive discovered that DH has an only fans account. I know the email and the password.

I haven't looked to see if the app is currently downloaded on his phone so need to look what the app looks like so I can check.

Is there a way to hide apps?

Also is there any free content on there or is it paid for only?

If paid for does anyone know what the bank statement will say as a description?

I have noticed odd £2.20 charges and wondered that these were but thought they'd be coffee or something innocent.

If I sign in on my phone will he get notified?

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MojoMoon · 02/01/2022 09:31

Have you thought about talking to him before trying espionage?

whachatalkinaboutwillis · 02/01/2022 09:32

Yes you can hide apps on a phone easily, from what I know Onlyfans shows up as OF or the full name on the bank statement but charges can be pre paid in a 'wallet' so then it would just show a transfer. I believe there is some free content but most is paid.
Sorry you are going through this OP.

Simonjt · 02/01/2022 09:33

Mine appear as onlyfans.com.

Theres lots of free content, the crocheter I subscribe to does some free beginners videos, then the more advanced ones are paid for. A friend is a PT and his are a mixture of free and paid for.

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uhohfsake · 02/01/2022 09:33

I have and I will but usually the advice on here is to check for yourself so evidence cannot be deleted. I know nothing about only fans or technology so don't know really what I'm faced with here.

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inmyslippers · 02/01/2022 09:34

You can hide apps, looks through his settings.

Peas252 · 02/01/2022 09:40

@uhohfsake

I have and I will but usually the advice on here is to check for yourself so evidence cannot be deleted. I know nothing about only fans or technology so don't know really what I'm faced with here.
So what if evidence is deleted? You either trust him or you don't. If you trust him, then everything is good. If you don't, just leave him. It's quite simple tbh.
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uhohfsake · 02/01/2022 09:40

I logged in through my phone so will it show as an active session or a log in from
Another device on his?

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ikeepseeingit · 02/01/2022 09:41

Only fans is full of porn, but it isn’t the only thing on there OP. I hope it’s innocent for your sake. It might be that he was curious about the website so made an account that he never uses, maybe he subscribes to an art account or something. It’s just as likely to be porn though. I think whether he will get notified probably depends on if there is two factor authentication on onlyFans.

Does he have form for being untrustworthy? I do think that it would be worth just talking to him in a non confrontational manner. Particularly as it could be pretty innocent stuff that he’s looking at.

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uhohfsake · 02/01/2022 09:43

It will be porn type material he would be interested in on there. I don't actually mind him looking at porn so that alone o wouldn't consider as cheating.

I don't really know what if anything there is to find out.

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ikeepseeingit · 02/01/2022 09:49

@uhohfsake

It will be porn type material he would be interested in on there. I don't actually mind him looking at porn so that alone o wouldn't consider as cheating.

I don't really know what if anything there is to find out.

If you don’t mind him looking at porn is it the payment that is bothering you? If so I think £2 is unlikely to be for OnlyFans, and if it is it won’t be for anything specific to him if that makes sense. You’re much better off talking to him and telling him you’re unhappy with him paying women to be naked really.
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uhohfsake · 02/01/2022 09:55

It would bother me if there was interaction with another person such as messaging.

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ikeepseeingit · 02/01/2022 09:59

I see, at £2 it’s unlikely to be that. It’s more likely image’s behind a paywall.

Adylans · 02/01/2022 09:59

There’s often messaging but it’s not necessarily personal type messages it’s just they often send out messages for pay pew view views and images etc
It’s almost all a lot more ethical than what would be on the popular free porn sites.

Adylans · 02/01/2022 09:59

*pay per view videos and images

Xmasgetaway · 02/01/2022 10:00

The £2 could be for a pm or subscription.
There are lots of young girls on OF desperate to gain followers and will give away their porn content almost for free in the hope they will gain followers and then move into the big-time.

KiloWhat · 02/01/2022 10:01

There should be some sort of description for the £2.20s on the bank statement that would be obvious if it was for coffee etc.

Adylans · 02/01/2022 10:06

Only fans shows up on bank statements as ‘ONLYFANS.COM’ op so it’s be obviously if it was that

nitsandwormsdodger · 02/01/2022 10:35

If you don’t mind him paying £2 for porn why the sneaking around ?
Just ask to watch it with him next time or not waste money on it

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uhohfsake · 02/01/2022 10:40

@nitsandwormsdodger

If you don’t mind him paying £2 for porn why the sneaking around ? Just ask to watch it with him next time or not waste money on it
I don't know too much about the platform and it's more direct interaction / messaging that I'd be concerned about.
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MiniTheMinx · 02/01/2022 10:45

If he has Samsung, enter Only Fans or OF or whatever the App is likely to be called as a google search and if the App is on the phone it will take you to the App.

SlashBeef · 02/01/2022 11:02

Hold up, I didn't realise there was crochet on OnlyFans 😆 I thought it was literally just porn. Is this just normal crochet? Not vagina crochet or kinky crochet?

Simonjt · 02/01/2022 11:08

@SlashBeef

Hold up, I didn't realise there was crochet on OnlyFans 😆 I thought it was literally just porn. Is this just normal crochet? Not vagina crochet or kinky crochet?
Onlyfans has been around for years as a hobby sharing platform.
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