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How to get him back

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nolovelost · 30/12/2021 07:38

Was let down badly by someone recently. Anyone think of something that I can that would slightly inconveience them? Not revenge but something that would piss them off! ( I don't live nearby either).

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Sirzy · 30/12/2021 07:41

Especially if you don’t live nearby so are unlikely to bump into them then why bother?

By getting into a game of petty revenge your only going to wind yourself up more.

invisiblereally · 30/12/2021 08:25

In what way?
Are they a friend?
Someone you bought something from that turned out to be rubbish?
Are they someone you were dating?

Your OP is so vague , I'd be surprised if anyone replied with suggestions as we have no context or reason to help you 'slightly get back at them' by inconveniencing them

Sparklingbrook · 30/12/2021 08:31

Not much to go on but I would always advise to move on and not waste any more headspace/time on them.

maddy68 · 30/12/2021 08:37

Life is way too short to play games. Grow up .This will only cause you further hurt.

FlamesEmbersAshes · 30/12/2021 08:41

No, don’t be silly. This is beneath you and just shows you are continuing to give them headspace. They’ll know it’s you anyway and you’ll look like a loon.

RowsOfHolly · 30/12/2021 08:58

And before these messages start, please do not send unwanted food deliveries or mail shots. Or anything else that causes expense to businesses or other wasted resources.

furbabymama87 · 30/12/2021 09:11

Don't lower yourself, just forget about it and move on.

viques · 30/12/2021 09:18

Live your life well, it’s the best revenge.

R0tational · 30/12/2021 09:19

Move on.

Bookworm20 · 30/12/2021 09:37

You'll get a million 'just live your life and move on' 'happiness is the best revenge' etc.

But I assume you were hurt? and just want to piss them off a bit?
The ex GF of a cousin of mine got revenge on him (he deserved it tbh) by mailing him a fake lottery scratch card with a letter stating something like you entered our draw and won a scratch card or something.
The fake scratch card looked really real! And he 'won' the jackpot of £500,000.
She didn't get to see his face, but I heard from other cousin he got so excited and was saying what he'd get until he realised about 5 minutes later it was fake.
REALLY pissed him off.

She'll never know what his reaction was, but I reckon just the thought of what she wanted it to be would have been enough.

Sparklingbrook · 30/12/2021 09:41

That’s such a lot of time and effort though @Bookworm20 and they didn’t even see the result? How do you even get a fake lottery scratch card?

rainbowstardrops · 30/12/2021 09:46

It all sounds incredibly childish and a waste of energy.
What did they do?

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