Background- breaking up due to partner being generally shit (but not abusive or anything) he does nothing outside of his 9-5 other than sit in his pants and scoff food.
Me and little one have been away for the week and I asked him to watch our son for an hour whilst I unpacked thinking it would be nice for them to spend some time together anyway, we still live together until house gets sold..
and I come downstairs... he is asleep and little one sat on couch watching tv (luckily) I can't stop thinking about it, especially giving the circumstances I will have to trust my son in his care soon. Is it normal to get so wound up over this? He thinks I am just trying to cause a fight when I have said that it's not on?