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How frequently do you see friend/friends

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Spooked102 · 20/12/2021 23:28

I’m thinking maybe this is too much at the moment I’m a sahm before pregnancy I was working full time, socialising, holidays nights out etc. Stopped working due to health reasons and fortunately comfortable enough I don’t have to work and can be a sahm for now, anyway I have a friend through a soft play centre I took my 2 year old and have since been friends and get on very well. But we meet a bit too frequently for my liking. She wants to meet every week for outings/ lunch. Like I said I am comfortable money wise but my god it’s costing me a small fortune going for coffees/lunches and activities for my two year old every week. I enjoy her company but sometimes find her a little boring. Aibu to cool down the friendship and maybe decrease how much we see eachother? And how?

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Cheeseycheeseycheesecheese · 20/12/2021 23:34

I'd be honest, tell her it's costing you a small fortune and can you reduce your outings to fortnightly or less frequently. Any reasonable person would understand that.

If she suggests meeting at hers/yours, especially last minute start saying "sorry, can't, already have plans"

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