I need to speak to you

[RosieLemonade]

Or I'll tell you later.
NO! Tell me now. Instead my mind will be in over drive until you do! Anyone else hate this!

I hate this! The worst is by text, you can’t even try to read their face!!

Yeah totally agree.

Yeah it’s super annoying.

Hate it hate it

I will speak to you Monday, said on a Friday at work. FFS what have I done now

Oh that's the worse!

Fucking hate this. Quickest way to make me angry.

Friend on facebook big reveal of something in 3 hours……… oops false alarm will be 3 months now 🙄

Oh gawwwd yes. This. DP does it all the time and it drives me mad. Either say what you want to say now, or don’t say anything about it until later.

I agree - it sends my anxiety into over-drive. Just tell me what the issue is so I can prepare.

Also the 'guess who I saw?' type texts.
Either tell me or don't bother me, I'm not interested in guessing games.

Completely agree. Makes me incredibly anxious to the point where I won't sleep for days.

Yes this is unbelievably annoying

Tell me now or don’t say anything at all until you can tell me!

The right answer is always "OK then". Drives them mad.
Never give them the attention they're craving (you'll know if they're the type).

I have found my people! This drives me mad.

Yes I have a friend who does this, it’s super annoying. She will text and say I will tell you shortly I need to do x. Even when she started the convo. It’s really weird. “I need to tell you all about x” me. Ooh ok, is everything ok. Her.I will tell you later, I jist need to clean the bathroom first.

Ffs.

My ex will ring me from work and say ‘I need to talk to you later I don’t have time now’

Then why did you ring at all?! Spit it out you mushroom!

Test back ‘yes I think we do’

Any question with the word guess in it is so frustrating!

Guess who I saw today ?
I don’t know
Go on have a guess
The Dalai Lama
No guess properly
Drives me mad !!

Its self indulgent, they want you on your toes.

Yes. People who do this clearly have never had an anxious thought in their entire lives.

My mum does this all the time and it infuriates me. She’ll message me when I’m at work asking if I can ring her later as she needs to ask something

The worst was when she messaged me saying ‘can you ring me as soon as you can please’. I didn’t see it for about an hour after she sent it. It was to let me know my dad had a stroke and had been rushed to hospital. Who the fuck texts about that!?

Arghhh yes!!
Either tell me or don’t tell me you need to tell me something, just wait until you actually tell me!!

I have done this.... But in my defence I was trying to break up with someone and didn't want to do it by email or text. What is really REALLY annoying was that he just wouldn't give me the opportunity to tell him and then he got angry that I hadn't told him sooner!