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Do people eventually show their true colours?

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hmmmm1223 · 06/12/2021 20:04

That basically.

It's painful to watch this evil selfish person put on this fake act/lies/complete opposite life around people that seemingly seem to be falling for it?

Do people eventually show their true colours?
Can people keep lies and a non existent life up forever?

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TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 06/12/2021 20:05

No, they slip. Always.

You just have to wait.

Tootsey11 · 06/12/2021 20:06

Yes, they do eventually. No one can keep up an act forever. Speaking from experience.

hmmmm1223 · 06/12/2021 20:12

Thank god. I'll sit back and be patient then Brew

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teleskopregel · 06/12/2021 20:26

IME and IMO, I believe it is highly likely these people will continue to lie and deflect, and that most other people will continue believe them. They tend to be convincing and charming, and most people don't get to see the bad bits underneath the surface. Unless you are willing and able to confront this person, I recommend you let it go and just watch what happens.

I recently discovered that someone who had treated many people badly, including my family and I, has spectacularly shown what awful behavior they are capable of. I withstood and ignored several years of slander and deflection from this person, and although in a way it feels good to be finally justified, I feel deeply sorry for this person, too. They have nobody and nothing left, really.

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