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7 replies

Mumsnut · 25/11/2021 14:01

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10241983/Possessive-boyfriend-21-fat-shamed-bullied-16-year-old-girlfriend-sex-SPARED-jail.html

Possessive boyfriend, 21, who fat-shamed, slapped and bullied his 16-year-old girlfriend into sex is SPARED jail after claiming he was 'depressed' because of a previous spell behind bars for terrorising an ex

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CustardySergeant · 25/11/2021 14:03

Un-sodding-believable isn't it? Angry

XenoBitch · 25/11/2021 14:05

Don't do the crime if you can't do the time.

CorrBlimeyGG · 25/11/2021 14:14

He was given a suspended sentence, having already been in custody for nine weeks. That means, should he reoffend, he will go straight to prison.

Looking at all the facts of the case - not just the DM highlights - the sentence is fair. What he did was criminal, abusive behaviour, but locking every offender up is counterproductive.

HarrietsChariot · 25/11/2021 14:20

This is the problem with our justice system, we aim to rehabilitate people and fashion them into a productive member of society. It would be better just to write off people like this, yes they've had problems which might not have always been their fault, but for the benefit of society as a whole they should be excluded from it permanently.

Once we remove the idea of "rehabilitation" from the legal system and focus on "punishment" and the "protection of innocent people" we will be in a much better position. All the rotten eggs in the same prison basket, no hope of release and left to get on with whatever life they have left inside their cell.

Sparklfairy · 25/11/2021 14:26

"and found the custodial setting hard."

Poor lamb Hmm

2Gen · 25/11/2021 18:45

That's sickening! Even more so now that women in prison can get their sentences lengthened for "misgendering" another inmate, usually a misogynistic, predatory and sexually deviant man pretending to be a woman so he can abuse the other inmates!
More and more I'm starting to see that feminism has not really done much for us, other than making us feel less-than if we don't have a career or if we stay at home and mind our own kids, and codding us that the only way we can be free and equal is if we have to legal right to abortion.
Now the powers-that-be are setting us up to be abused and let our abusers away with it again! Those type of men don't deserve to be free ever again IMO! The rights of women and children to be safe should trump any of their rights but it's obvious to me that our safety and well-being means nothing to the big-wigs! They are disgusting for being so lenient with these degenerates!

tallduckandhandsome · 28/11/2021 09:54

What scum he is.

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