I have one month until I’m going to a big social event. I have a beautiful outfit I’d love to wear and just tired of not being able to zip up my jeans without mushrooming out the top. One month and joining the gym what exercises do you swear by and think would help me so I don’t focus on the wrong ones. My stomach is soft wobbly with no muscle. Help help!! Do u think I’m unreasonable that a month could make a difference?