WIBU to ask DH to not vape in bed?

[Udouhun]

I don't vape myself so don't know what's acceptable but he's been vaping in bed before he gets up and I find the noise of it really annoying. I don't see why he can't wait til he gets up?

Gross! It must stink too. In your bedroom is rank.

That's gross. Shouldn't even do it in the house.

The sickly choking stink must be pretty awful too!

Oh no! I wouldn't even find someone who vaped in the bed attractive wouldn't have him in my bed.

Yanbu, that’s a really grotty habit.

God, no! I hate vaping, I would find that really off-putting. It's very inconsiderate of him.

Jeez that would be a deal breaker for me...lazy fucker should get up and do it somewhere else so nobody else has to smell it.

I'm sorry you feel you have to ask. Do you have trouble getting him to listen to you or take you seriously in general? Because someone would only have to do that once after I asked them to stop and that would be the last time we shared a bed.

That is completely disgusting. I'd LTB just for the vaping, never mind the location.

That is disgusting. Smoking or vaping in bed is really not on.

Oooh that is student level foul!! (Well nearly)

Grim

He is selfish. It's gross and disgusting. How on earth can you even be near him

Just yuk!!

Oh wow that's unanimous! Thanks - it's good to know what's reasonable or not. He was a bit grumpy when I asked him to stop! I just think that you wouldn't smoke a big dirty fag in bed so why would you vape? I wish he would give up.

I'm sat vaping in bed now but it's my room and I'm happy with that decision- when I smoked I wouldn't have dreamed of doing it in bed or even indoors but vapour doesn't bother me - that said it bothers you so it's not unreasonable to ask him not to