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to think the age of 20 is a bit old to be making Tik-Toks about your drug taking?

26 replies

A580Hojas · 10/11/2021 14:11

You bet I'm judgey about the child of an acquaintance doing Tik-Toks about the merits or otherwise of weed v magic mushrooms and the like. This is an educated young person, nearly finished University, will be looking for a job soon (I imagine). Isn't that totally cringe and naff?

Can they delete them or are they somehow out in the ether forever?

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Youdoyoutoday · 10/11/2021 14:23

Well when future employers have a nose in the Internet to find all that, I'm sure they'll be top of the bin list.

HailAdrian · 10/11/2021 14:25

I can't believe young people still believe they are 'badass' or edgy or interesting for doing drugs.

Haus1234 · 10/11/2021 14:29

Making publicly available videos about illegal activity is clearly not a good idea, but I am surprised that you think 20 is too old to take drugs - I don’t think it’s actually a typical teen activity!

AreYouRightThereSkippy · 10/11/2021 14:31

Woops! Let's hope they can delete them. What a stupid thing to do, whatever whatever age.

AreYouRightThereSkippy · 10/11/2021 14:32

Although, maybe he'll do a going clean and sober series and become some sort of wellness influencer!

DwangelaForever · 10/11/2021 14:34

There are older people on tiktok openly posting about their relationship with ❄😬

I think its wild how open people are now about their illegal drug use!

MeredithGreyishblue · 10/11/2021 14:35

I'm not sure any age is appropriate!

If we look at the professional sports people, musicians etc whose careers have suffered a decade after a mis-judged Tweet, I'd say it doesn't bode well for his future!

EileenGC · 10/11/2021 14:36

I’m not much older than that and would find the idea of doing that repulsive. I’d also be out of my job (and reputation) very quickly.

Anonymous48 · 10/11/2021 14:41

Too old? Too young, if anything! Not that anyone should be doing this.

FrankButchersDickieBow · 10/11/2021 14:42

I've seen loads of 'jokey' tiktoks of 30 somethings joking that as soon as they have a sip of alcohol, they decide they're going to get some cocaine.

A580Hojas · 10/11/2021 14:45

As in by 20 you should be old enough to know better. It's not about the drug taking per se (they are a fact of life) but the stupid broadcasting it all to billions of people - using your real name to boot!

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Anonymous48 · 10/11/2021 14:52

@A580Hojas

As in by 20 you should be old enough to know better. It's not about the drug taking per se (they are a fact of life) but the stupid broadcasting it all to billions of people - using your real name to boot!
How many 20 year olds do you know? The brain doesn't finish developing until you're in your mid 20's.
Sattherelikealemon · 10/11/2021 14:53

What a fool. They'd better hope their uni or any employers don't see it. Content is potentially out there forever after all

Hamster1111 · 10/11/2021 14:55

Stupid thing to do. I google everyone I interview, try to find all their social media profiles etc. As pp said, straight to the top of the bin list!

TheMarzipanDildo · 10/11/2021 14:58

Urgh. Bit cringy.

Also, for some reason, drugs have such a cool factor that even people with a proper interest in ethics seem to be able to forget the dodgyness of the industry.

A580Hojas · 10/11/2021 15:01

How many 20 year olds do I know Anonymous48? Let me see, maybe 40 to 50, 60 young people of 20 or about that age.

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YourWetSock · 10/11/2021 15:15

@HailAdrian

I can't believe young people still believe they are 'badass' or edgy or interesting for doing drugs.
Yep I was fascinated by coke as a teenager…. So dumb
Anonymous48 · 10/11/2021 15:16

@A580Hojas

How many 20 year olds do I know Anonymous48? Let me see, maybe 40 to 50, 60 young people of 20 or about that age.
So then you should know that not all of them always make sensible decisions.
Userguaranteed · 10/11/2021 16:06

No age is perfect for it but I'm sure they will fit right in with the drug-taking 'decent middle class professionals' we hear about all over mumsnet.

scarpa · 10/11/2021 16:09

Most people I know who took/take drugs started doing it in their 20s, not their teens.

More disposable money, less likely to be living at home and under parental surveillance, etc.

So not especially surprised, really. Stupid to put it on the internet but again, the sheer volume of coke/MDMA related Tiktoks out there suggests they're not alone.

Youdoyoutoday · 10/11/2021 16:43

@HailAdrian

I can't believe young people still believe they are 'badass' or edgy or interesting for doing drugs.
I know, right? And playing their music loud! Our neighbours twatty son always plays his music loud thinking he's all that and original! Purleeesse!! I was raving to original of whatever he was playing 20 years ago!!
Fomomofo · 10/11/2021 16:53

The marzipan dildo, but aren't psychedlics now being used to cure depression and ptsd? So not all part of a 'dodgy industry'.

WeRTheOnesWeHaveBeenWaitingFor · 10/11/2021 17:05

He’s an idiot if he is posting on the internet about taking drugs. I wouldn’t employ someone if I found a video like that.
I’m hypercritical because i also did a lot of drugs in my 20’s and probably posted stuff that alluded to it on MySpace.

TheMarzipanDildo · 10/11/2021 17:30

@Fomomofo

The marzipan dildo, but aren't psychedlics now being used to cure depression and ptsd? So not all part of a 'dodgy industry'.
Agreed, but most of the drug takers I know don’t seem to know or care where the drugs are actually from.
TheMarzipanDildo · 10/11/2021 17:37

Also, I’m not suggesting that taking drugs makes you a bad person. It’s just that usually supply chains are concealed, and most people would rather just not think about the possibility that kids are being exploited/ gang crime.

I’m guilty of buying cheap clothes without putting much thought into it, so don’t want to get on my high horse here.

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