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To ask you for help with first date outfit ideas??

9 replies

Nopassionforfashion · 04/11/2021 22:14

Hi ladies. I'm having a fashion crisis. First date next week, going for coffee and walk round a nice park. What do I wear??

I've put on a lot of weight during lockdown so have avoided fashion, and now I'm stuck. I'm early 30s and quite tall (so not mad on wearing heels until I know the guy is as tall as he claims!)

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AramintaLee · 04/11/2021 22:20

Have you got a midi shirt dress that you could wear with converse type trainers?

Really hard to advise someone on what to wear when you don't know their style lol.

However, if its a casual day date and you're going for a walk, I think you can get away with dressing down and being comfortable Smile

Itsbeen84yearss · 04/11/2021 22:22

I mean depends if you’re bothered about pleasing him or yourself. Men often like dresses and skirts so you could opt for a jumper dress with thick tights or a skirt and jumper with thick tights. You may feel happier in jeans and a jumper, nice coat and ankle boots. You’ll have to go thin layers though otherwise it’ll make you look bulky. You’ll prob have to wear a coat though. Something with a belt might be helpful to give you a better silhouette

Dixiechickonhols · 04/11/2021 22:23

Jeans and trainers or boots. Good luck.

Fcuk38 · 04/11/2021 22:26

Midi dress, chunky statement boots and a statement coat.

TestingTestingWonTooFree · 04/11/2021 22:29

I’d say nothing too high fashion. Dress and tights or jeans and jumper seem good. Shoes you can walk in.

gogohm · 04/11/2021 22:29

Jeans and a jumper with ankle boots plus coat is just fine in November. Or a dress, thick tights and boots perhaps. Don't overthink it

MrzClaus · 04/11/2021 22:32

What skin tone / hair colour / build are you? That'll change to colours / style I'd suggest!

I'm 6"1 and definitely on the plus side. V.Pale and dark haired. For a date like that, I'd wear an autumn dress (something either dark with a floral pattern, or deep jewel tone) with tights if it was colder and flat knee high boots. Teamed with either a cute leather jacket or a longline camel style coat. It emphasises my favourite part - legs!

Or swap for a slightly oversized cute jumper and dark jeans / leggings and some flat shoes and a cute camel coat.

To ask you for help with first date outfit ideas??
To ask you for help with first date outfit ideas??
To ask you for help with first date outfit ideas??
Notimeforaname · 04/11/2021 22:38

statement boots and a statement coat
This always makes me laughGrin Statement everything. I just have boots and coats . No idea if they are 'statement' enough Grin

OP what's your style like what do you usually wear?

Nopassionforfashion · 04/11/2021 22:59

Thanks everyone, some great tips! My go-to would have been dress, tights and ankle boots but I've put on 3 stone so my legs feel enormous at the moment. I have been thinking about a statement coat though, the weather is getting so cold up here now that I think a leather jacket might be a bit too light.

I'm pale with blonde/brown hair for those that asked Smile

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