EXH had an affair with OW, left me and moved in with her - lasted 18 months with a DC. They have now split up.
OW was a family friend
Took me some time to move on - as very nasty, vindictive behaviour by both of them. DCS badly affected. Now I am in a better place and semi new relationship.
OW does not do a job in anyway related to mine and worked in completely different field.
She has just got a part time job working in the same company as me (niche service) -different department. Found out via old mutual friends who felt I should know - her behaviour was vv bad at the time of it all coming out.
I find this quite weird or am I being too precious.
(she literally is in an office at the entrance to my dept)