Instagram only - Bumble match

[Leonardo87]

Hey guys
I am 34/F matched with very attractive 38/M on Bumble a couple of weeks ago

My profile said ‘looking for relationship’, his was blank.

Anyway we were chatting in the app and he added me on Instagram (never had that happen before) and he only continued to chat on Instagram - did not give me his mobile number.

We had one date which went well with a smooch at the end and he did chance his arm for sex. 😂
He continued messaging me through Instagram, only really in the morning with ‘bed selfies’, with little chat about my actual day - using lots of smirky emojis etc. Very vague about another meetup but expressed interest.

Last Friday he texted me from bed and when he asked me my day off plans I told him I was getting my legs etc waxed - he said ‘oh are you getting that done for me?’. I was like ‘No, I always get it done because I am a swimmer’ 😂😂

Anyway He ghosted me over the weekend - No reply back from a message on Saturday PM.

Honestly he is attractive but he is giving me real player vibes - I have not said anything to him I am just going to laugh this one off and block him on Instagram.

Would you ladies all have the same vibe?

Block amd move on

Laugh it off and move on if you’re not interested in casual. Definitely a player.

It makes me feel a little sick to think I have been a randoms from Bumble wank material for the mornings for the past couple of weeks 😂😂

Trust your instincts, move on.

He sounds sleazy as fuck, which is most unattractive. Block him.

Yeah he’s after walks and sex only

He probably thinks he's being oh so sexy by texting you bed selfies, etc, but they're just one step down from dick pics. I agree with you, he's just wanting a shag.

I am actually starting to think he may have a girlfriend or something who was away on the weekend we matched 😂😂

‘Walks and sex’ 😂😂😂

@Waspsarearseholes

He probably thinks he's being oh so sexy by texting you bed selfies, etc, but they're just one step down from dick pics. I agree with you, he's just wanting a shag.

Bed selfies can be a big turn on though if a) everyone’s into it and b) there’s no bad vibes. In the early days when work / other plans are getting in the way of seeing each other often enough, it’s the whole “wish you were here” thing.

But OP has been clear about what she wants, and even though there is a bit of chemistry/attraction there, she’s not feeling it.

He definitely just wanted a shag and definitely has a girlfriend. At least he's made it super obvious so you can block and move on👍

In future, don't waste your time on someone who shows no real interest in you!

Walks and sex amused me

I honestly am starting to think the only time he could message from bed was the morning when she went out to work. Honestly player playersss

He sounds awful!

Yesss 👻👻👻👻