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Why does ex do this?

8 replies

RainbowBriteUk · 23/10/2021 18:47

I was with ex for a year but we grew close in that time. Lots of nights over together in the week and weekends. We kept in touch when we broke up and speak everyday on whstsapp. Every now and then he goes silent. It can be for a few days. It's not that he's busy but he played mind games and power games when we were together and I feel this is an extension of this. AIBU to think this?

OP posts:
User983590521 · 23/10/2021 18:49

YABU to care so much what an ex might be doing.

QuestionNumberOne · 23/10/2021 18:50

You need to value yourself more OP. Stop contacting him.

TurnUpTurnip · 23/10/2021 19:06

Probably seeing someone else and messages you when he’s at a loose end

MintJulia · 23/10/2021 19:07

Yabu. Why does it matter? He's your ex.

He's probably off living his life, finding someone new. You could be doing something more positive and more fun.

Cuntness · 23/10/2021 19:08

Stop bothering.

Helpimfalling · 23/10/2021 19:09

@TurnUpTurnip

Probably seeing someone else and messages you when he’s at a loose end
Sorry I also thought similar And speaking from experience
vodkaredbullgirl · 23/10/2021 19:12

Delete his number and block.

CreepySpider · 23/10/2021 19:17

@TurnUpTurnip

Probably seeing someone else and messages you when he’s at a loose end
Exactly what I thought as well.
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