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Aaaargh! Help me find a hotel for this week PLEASE!

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ShinyMe · 23/10/2021 16:45

I know this isn't AIBU, so I know i'm being naughty!

My mother is a full time carer for my disabled dad and he has now gone into respite care (FINALLY!!) for a few days. It's the first respite she's had in 2 years.

We need somewhere to stay from Tuesday to Friday (has to be those dates) that's somewhere reasonably located between Buckinghamshire (where we'll be on Monday night) allowing us to drive to this place on Tuesday without taking hours, and then for her to drive home to north Wales on Friday. So we're talking not Scotland or the Lakes etc, more likely south, Cotswolds/New Forest type thing, unless there is somewhere brilliant that I can't think of. We do not want a city, and we do want a swimming pool. It's proving impossible to find!

Ideally, we'd like a country house type place, with a pool, that isn't a 5 hour drive out of the way, that has availability those dates. So far, I've been looking on last minute.com, Booking.com and secret escapes, and have nothing. There was one possible in Portsmouth, but it has no parking. One possible in the Cotswolds, but the pool is only open if you book a spa treatment. One possible in Kettering (hm...) but it's in a retail park on a dual carriageway.

There must be SOMETHING! Money no object now, I do not care. Some of the sites are really hard as you have to specify a location, which isn't helping when I just don't know!

I know it's half term in a pandemic and last minute, but circumstances meant we didn't know until yesterday that we would definitely be able to get away, so we weren't able to book anything before.

OP posts:
ShinyMe · 24/10/2021 06:56

@Hatsuma

Oh just seen you’ve already booked, should have RTFT there Grin
It would have been nice in ptrcovid times, but my mum needs a proper break with no thinking! Even if I did all the cooking it wouldn't be the same because she'd be trying to do stuff to help all the time!

Thank you everyone for the help!

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Envoitrevisage · 24/10/2021 07:04

The Shire Kettering Park is lovely. I’ve stayed many many times.

Writtlebury Hall is nice too.

Sopwell House

The Luton Hoo.

De Vere at the Cotswold Water?

Left field…. Crazy Bear? No pool I don’t think but it’s an experience.

Envoitrevisage · 24/10/2021 07:06

Fawsley Hall

GCAcademic · 24/10/2021 07:20

Ettington Park hotel?

waltzingparrot · 24/10/2021 07:41

Tylney Hall, Hook, Hampshire
Old Thorns Manor, Liphook

LoveAGoodToddlerTantrum · 24/10/2021 07:54

I agree fawsley hall is lovely. Lots of history there and lovely grounds. Pool has recently been renovated I believe.

ShinyMe · 24/10/2021 08:06

I've already found somewhere, but thank you!

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Peace43 · 24/10/2021 08:29

Woburn Centre Parcs? They have hotel rooms as well as lodges.

languagelover96 · 09/11/2021 17:38

Another Belfry fan here. Amazing hotel.

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