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Jaffa Cakes Vs Women

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RedMarauder · 20/10/2021 13:56

If you steal Jaffa Cakes you will be sacked from the police.
www.halifaxcourier.co.uk/news/crime/police-officer-sacked-after-taking-jaffa-cakes-from-charity-stall-without-paying-full-price-at-halifax-station-3420056

However if you pull out your warrant card and harass a woman, you will get a final warning. This means your police force will have to sue to get you sacked.

www.lbc.co.uk/news/btp-legal-action-after-officer-who-sexually-harassed-woman-not-sacked/

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Movinghouseatlast · 20/10/2021 14:04

It seems to depend on who is doing the punishing.

Recently I found out than an ex of mine ( from 30 years ago!) was recently sent to prison and sacked from the police force because he had an 11 year affair with a woman he met when he was sent to her house to investigate a crime.

I don't know the details of course- just what I read in the paper- but I felt the punishment he got was much more severe because he was a police officer.

Movinghouseatlast · 20/10/2021 14:05

Sorry, I meant to add that maybe a different judge would have handed out a different sentence. There seems to be no consistency.

CrystalBuddha · 20/10/2021 14:09

I saw the 'jaffa cakes' story and it just made me wonder wtf in relation to Wayne Couzens and his 'alleged' nickname of 'the rapist' - what's going on...

RedMarauder · 20/10/2021 18:11

@Movinghouseatlast it is an abuse of trust.

Doctors, teachers and people in many other professions aren't allow to date members of the public they meet on the job.

I suspect in the person you dated years ago case the relationship was abusive in some form hence the 11 year sentence.

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RedMarauder · 20/10/2021 18:12

@CrystalBuddha that's why I posted it.

I'm was too pissed off to actually decide what my AIBU was.

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Movinghouseatlast · 20/10/2021 18:13

Yes, absolutely! He had an 11 year affair, not sentence. His sentence was 15 months.

My point is the lack of consistency as I see it.

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