Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Jaffa Cakes Vs Women

6 replies

RedMarauder · 20/10/2021 13:56

If you steal Jaffa Cakes you will be sacked from the police.
www.halifaxcourier.co.uk/news/crime/police-officer-sacked-after-taking-jaffa-cakes-from-charity-stall-without-paying-full-price-at-halifax-station-3420056

However if you pull out your warrant card and harass a woman, you will get a final warning. This means your police force will have to sue to get you sacked.

www.lbc.co.uk/news/btp-legal-action-after-officer-who-sexually-harassed-woman-not-sacked/

OP posts:
Movinghouseatlast · 20/10/2021 14:04

It seems to depend on who is doing the punishing.

Recently I found out than an ex of mine ( from 30 years ago!) was recently sent to prison and sacked from the police force because he had an 11 year affair with a woman he met when he was sent to her house to investigate a crime.

I don't know the details of course- just what I read in the paper- but I felt the punishment he got was much more severe because he was a police officer.

Movinghouseatlast · 20/10/2021 14:05

Sorry, I meant to add that maybe a different judge would have handed out a different sentence. There seems to be no consistency.

CrystalBuddha · 20/10/2021 14:09

I saw the 'jaffa cakes' story and it just made me wonder wtf in relation to Wayne Couzens and his 'alleged' nickname of 'the rapist' - what's going on...

RedMarauder · 20/10/2021 18:11

@Movinghouseatlast it is an abuse of trust.

Doctors, teachers and people in many other professions aren't allow to date members of the public they meet on the job.

I suspect in the person you dated years ago case the relationship was abusive in some form hence the 11 year sentence.

OP posts:
RedMarauder · 20/10/2021 18:12

@CrystalBuddha that's why I posted it.

I'm was too pissed off to actually decide what my AIBU was.

OP posts:
Movinghouseatlast · 20/10/2021 18:13

Yes, absolutely! He had an 11 year affair, not sentence. His sentence was 15 months.

My point is the lack of consistency as I see it.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page