So my c section has been booked for December for a while (due to medical conditions), my mum was meant to be watching my 3 year old when I went in for it. I don’t trust a lot of people with her so this set me at ease massively.
After my mum knew the c section date she booked a holiday to the Caribbean returning 3 days before the c section.
We’re all vaccinated but of course the baby is not.
It came as a shock when she told me the dates as she knew when the c section was but I wasn’t too bothered. The closer I get to the birth I am very concerned about her being away and going through two busy airports and an international flight before baby is born.
I’ve asked her not to come until she’s been back in the country for a week.
I know this is going to upset her but I’m really anxious and now have added anxiety about who will take care of my little girl.
My mum lives 2 hours away so she would have been staying for a few days.
Am I being unreasonable to change my mind?