Can anyone please advise me. As you can tell from the time I’m posting this I’m having yet another sleepless night worried about DD school. I suffer from extreme anxiety so please be kind.
DD is in a state primary and plan was always to do state till year 2 then at year 3 move to independent school based on her 7+ results. We don’t live in Woodford green but plan was to now start looking to move there which we are doing.
Even tho I had a plan I’m second guessing myself and doubting everything. Just for context I have no emotional support in RL. DH just goes along with my decisions, he will provide the finances but zero input or even tell me his opinions. He takes no interest in kids lives as his work is very time and energy consuming. He gets paid well but we rarely see him.
I’m weighed down by all the decisions such as:
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Woodford green seems to have very good state primaries so should I consider these alongside independent? We will be moving to the area so worth looking into. Anyone have experience of states in Woodford?
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am I really making right decision to move DD out of current school? I think I am. Her current school has teachers leaving practically every week due to stress and pressures (not normal as I have worked in schools before I had kids and very rare for teachers to leave mid term). School seems to be strapped for cash as it’s relatively new (5/6 years) they have zero playground equipment and nothing in sports hall. Things seem to be last minute snd no communication from teachers. Books were sent home end of last year and very little marking. It’s an academy.
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is it worth sending to private now or wait till secondary?
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the private school we have our eye on has around 25 kids in class - doesn’t this seem too much? It’s Woodford green prep
Thank you in advance for any replies I get.