Lack of intimacy

[Abbodabs]

Hi all I just wanted to get your opinion on why my DH never wants any intimacy with me.We are married with three beautiful dd’s and I just find I’m really starting to get tiresome of the lack of any intimacy.It’s been near of eight months.Does he not find me attractive any more ? No signs of any affairs but I’m really starting to question what is wrong with me.I feel lonely at times.Am I a terrible person for getting upset over this ?

Have you asked him ?

Do you feel you can talk to him about this? You're his wife. You should be able to raise the subject. What would happen if you were to initiate something? Is he stressed at work? There could be so many reasons and only he can tell you.

The lack of emotional closeness which means you haven't raised this is more of a problem than the lack of physical intimacy and probably causally related.