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Aibu to be scared to go to sleep

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Toystory36 · 20/09/2021 22:39

My friend passed away in her sleep earlier in the week at the age of 40, no underlying health issues and it’s really freaked me out. I have been unable to sleep and worrying about everything. We weren’t seriously close friends but I feel like it has affected me I just can’t stop thinking about her family and I keep getting upset.

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LittleMissGlum · 21/09/2021 00:36

Sorry for your loss ❤️

I can imagine it's difficult at the moment, trying to process what has happened. When I was at school, something similar happened, and I was struggling with trying to go to sleep.
What helped was, reminding myself, lots of people pass away in so many different circumstances, and we can't avoid everything. Also, I used to watch things that cheered me up until I felt super sleepy, to point where you can't stay awake.
Sometimes breathing techniques help too, or just chatting to mutual friends.
Hope you feel better soon, Smile

BobsBurgersisthebest · 21/09/2021 00:38

Big hugs. This sort of thing affects me massively but I can't imagine what perfect way of passing away, than In your sleep. You won't know about it or that its going to happen. Xx

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