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Tradie didn’t turn up to quote. Do I chase?

22 replies

Talktalkchat · 20/09/2021 19:39

As above. He arranged today an hour ago.

I didn’t message him to confirm today.

Shall I message him?

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giddyasakipper · 20/09/2021 19:39

Move on to the next one! Not a good sign of things to come!

DeepaBeesKit · 20/09/2021 19:40

Nope dont chase move on. Generally it means they don't want the job.

BobsBurgersisthebest · 20/09/2021 19:43

You didn't massage to confirm but thought he'd turn up anyway? Confused

BobsBurgersisthebest · 20/09/2021 19:43

*message

SavoyCabbage · 20/09/2021 19:45

He arranged it an hour ago but you didn't confirm?

Also, an hour is not that late all things considered It's so difficult to get any tradesmen at all at the moment.

Talktalkchat · 20/09/2021 19:48

@SavoyCabbage

He arranged it an hour ago but you didn't confirm?

Also, an hour is not that late all things considered It's so difficult to get any tradesmen at all at the moment.

It was arranged last week and he was supposed to come tonight.
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Awwlookatmybabyspider · 20/09/2021 19:50

Definitely not. A Trades person or Business are supposed to be dependent on the customer. It shouldn't be the other way round. Plus they've shown they're unreliable, now. If they doesn't want the job stuff them. There will be plenty of other people that do. Mind you that does happen a lot with Trades people (just not turning up). Apparently n one has gone any money and aren't getting any Business yet they're still turning work down.

seensome · 20/09/2021 19:51

Nope leave it, if he doesn't turn up for the quote he doesn't deserve the job and he maybe unreliable if you hire him.

StealthPolarBear · 20/09/2021 19:53

It's all very well saying move on but ime there are few options. We've had loads of work done recently and about half the time people just didn't turn up. Dh had a roofer who had already donee some work, when the roof was still leaking and we asked him to come back and do more work (for which wed pay more!) he replied "who's this?"
If I had my time again I'd train up in a trade.

Holskey · 20/09/2021 19:55

@StealthPolarBear

It's all very well saying move on but ime there are few options. We've had loads of work done recently and about half the time people just didn't turn up. Dh had a roofer who had already donee some work, when the roof was still leaking and we asked him to come back and do more work (for which wed pay more!) he replied "who's this?" If I had my time again I'd train up in a trade.
This. Spot on in my recent experience too. It's like nobody needs the business!
Tigger1895 · 20/09/2021 19:57

If you didn’t confirm he could think you found someone else, he’s not going to chase you.

MyPatronusIsACat · 20/09/2021 19:57

Tricky one... I have given a few tradies a second chance before and they have come good. Come second time, did a good job etc... But I have also given some a second chance and they have not turned on the second occasion either. Obviously they didn't get a third chance.

@Talktalkchat So I am on the fence. Do you chase him? Depends how much you want this guy, and if you have other options...

TastyToastie · 20/09/2021 20:00

I would send one brief message to chase, if he has otherwise been responsive and you've had a recommendation for him.

FOJN · 20/09/2021 20:03

If you made arrangements for him to come to quote at a certain time today and he hasn't turned up or contacted you to reschedule then I wouldn't chase. He doesn't want the job and is likely to be unreliable even if you did hire him.

ConsulTremas · 20/09/2021 20:08

I wouldn’t bother chasing, you’ll be running after him forever. See if you can get someone more reliable.

amillionrosepetals · 20/09/2021 20:21

I wouldn't bother chasing him if I were you, he clearly doesn't want the work. See if you can give him some negative feedback somewhere though so other people can see how he behaves.

Daphnise · 20/09/2021 20:24

If you chase you're on a downward slope.

Move on.

Talktalkchat · 20/09/2021 20:35

He turned up lol

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Longdistance · 20/09/2021 20:35

NEXT!
He’s unreliable, look for someone else.

Bunnyfuller · 20/09/2021 20:44

Nope, move on. It’s not up to you to be their PA!

Propagandalf · 20/09/2021 21:45

@Awwlookatmybabyspider

Definitely not. A Trades person or Business are supposed to be dependent on the customer. It shouldn't be the other way round. Plus they've shown they're unreliable, now. If they doesn't want the job stuff them. There will be plenty of other people that do. Mind you that does happen a lot with Trades people (just not turning up). Apparently n one has gone any money and aren't getting any Business yet they're still turning work down.
It is very much the other way round at the moment. Trades people are booked to the rafters, and so they know that they have everyone by their bollocks. They can get away with inflated rates, being late or not turning up at all. They're only going for the big jobs because that's where the money is. Then the obvious sites like Rated People and TrustATrader are returning 0 responses.
BurntO · 20/09/2021 22:00

Glad to hear he turned up OP. Honestly having the same issue here, it’s a nightmare to find anyone who has the time so I’d have chased

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