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AIBU?

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Who's in the wrong?

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StraightFaced · 11/09/2021 22:45

My DH came home late last night and didn't get up until the afternoon. I'm WFH in a demanding job where I cannot give my DS the attention he needs. When he eventually gets up he tells me he has to do something with his DD. I have told him that it's not fair to leave me alone to try and juggle work and DS. He goes anyway and states that I have an issue with him spending time with DD.
I have no issue with this, I never have or would. The only issue i have is that he has left me trying to juggle by sleeping in and then going out .... AIBU??

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Cherrysoup · 11/09/2021 22:47

Didn’t get up til the afternoon?! How do people sleep that long? I’d go nuts at him, he’s picking and choosing which bits of family life he wants to do. Wanker.

StraightFaced · 11/09/2021 22:53

@Cherrysoup

Didn’t get up til the afternoon?! How do people sleep that long? I’d go nuts at him, he’s picking and choosing which bits of family life he wants to do. Wanker.
I'm over reacting according to him. I had pre-warned him i was on shift today when he was making plans with DD. I assumed he would arrange it for another time.
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0palescent · 11/09/2021 22:57

What age is his daughter? Why can't he have both DS and DD together?!

3scape · 11/09/2021 22:58

He sounds massively irresponsible if DS is also his.

StraightFaced · 11/09/2021 23:03

@0palescent

What age is his daughter? Why can't he have both DS and DD together?!
DS is 3 and his DD is 15. They were doing an activity that DS was too young to partake in.
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StraightFaced · 11/09/2021 23:03

@3scape

He sounds massively irresponsible if DS is also his.
Yes DS is his.
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LittleOwl153 · 11/09/2021 23:06

He wouldn't have been sleeping till afternoon if I had to work. Late night or not!

AdaColeman · 11/09/2021 23:17

Another time, just wake him up.

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