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Why is he being shady?

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Megaland23 · 10/09/2021 18:45

Posting on here for traffic.

I want some thoughts on the matter because I'm drawing a blank on this.

Dp has a good friend. Call him L. Dp and L talk quite alot on group chats ect and singularly. sometimes it looks like they chat on what'sapp and snapchat at the same time. I know L. We are all mutual friends and sometimes go on double dates with his partner together. For quite a while now I've noticed my dp has a partner of hiding his phone from me, so I sometimes sneak a look over his shoulder as his actions are causing me paranoia. I do ask him what he is looking at sometimes and he says oh it's an article or a group chat, and funnily enough it always is. But the way he deliberately turns his phone away from me if I so much as shuffle towards him you'd think he had ten girls on the go.

Anyways.... so last night I asked dp about his friends. He said he hadnt spoken to any of them in a while now. I was shocked as he is always on his phone so I said not even on the group chats? Dp said no. So I said not even L (as they are so close) dp said L has been busy for a couple of weeks so no.

Today I went to go hug dp whilst he was texting and he literally walked around the rooms in circles so I couldnt see what he was doing. I caught a glimpse that he was texting L. What is going on here? He told me they havent spoken to each other in a while and the fact that he not only moved his phone away but literally walked around the room forward facing so I couldnt see is just plain weird.

What do you think is going on here or am I just looking into things too much?

OP posts:
TempName01 · 10/09/2021 18:54

Sounds like he could have another woman’s number stored in his phone under ‘L’. It does sound suspicious sorry

Twilight7777 · 12/09/2021 21:59

I’m sorry but I’m wondering if it’s possible that he has feelings for his friend L?

TotheletterofthelawTHELETTER · 12/09/2021 22:14

He either is having a relationship with L. Or has another woman who he has saved as ‘L’ so you won’t get suspicious seeing his name flash up.

DrManhattan · 12/09/2021 22:19

Yeah I would be suspicious too. Has he done this before?

willowtree81 · 12/09/2021 22:31

I'm sorry, I would definitely be concerned about this. What is he trying to hide?

YetAnotherChanger · 12/09/2021 22:38

Looks like another woman who’s name has been saved as L.

Chickydoo · 12/09/2021 22:41

This happened to me.
DH contacting John. OW surname...John.

HollowTalk · 12/09/2021 22:41

He must think you are stupid. What's your history like with him?

katslaterqueen · 12/09/2021 22:51

I would definitely confront him, it really doesn't make any sense. Do you trust him op?

ShrimpBarbarian · 12/09/2021 22:52

Is L female?

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