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To have shouted at the man in the street letching after a 14 year old?

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isthisfishy · 07/09/2021 21:58

DD was 15 today. She is an anxious and shy girl. Walking with me through town when a man in his 20's who could plainly see she was with her mother says 'are you single, you look like a sexy school girl'.
I was livid and for the rest of the day she wouldn't even go into a shop alone. Why oh why do some men think they have the right to comment on the looks of females and one who was clearly a minor too?

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SequinsandStiIettos · 07/09/2021 21:59

You must be single, you sound like a nonce

EishetChayil · 07/09/2021 22:00

Too right you should have. What did you say? Presumably something along the lines of "she's a child, you nonce."

Lurcherloves · 07/09/2021 22:00

It’s disgusting behaviour from some men. Unfortunately they feel entitled to comment on women’s or girls looks

isthisfishy · 07/09/2021 22:02

Haha yes I did shout 'she's a child you nonce' extremely loudly, ensuring that I drew a LOT of attention to the arse wipe!

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Darkchocolateandcoffee · 07/09/2021 22:11

Gross. Well done for calling him out.

carlywurly · 07/09/2021 22:23

Urgh. I was in Costa the other day and am pretty convinced the 50 something bloke behind me, when asked by the young woman serving if he wanted anything else, said in a low voice "only you."

I was so shocked and also wasn't 100% sure I'd heard right or I'd have lynched him. I kicked myself the rest of the day as I'm normally quite gobby. It's so depressing that this shit happens.

Callcat · 07/09/2021 22:24

I'm getting increasingly concerned abpit my DP's DD of the same age. She's v.v. tall and strikingly beautiful but clearly a teen. Out with her the other day and some nonce was throwing a few too many glances in her direction. Didn't feel like I could call him out as it was so discreet but I knew his game. A woman can sense it a mile off. Sick fuck.

isthisfishy · 08/09/2021 05:43

She also told me after it happened that it made her ashamed of her body. God I hate some men.

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Adarajames · 08/09/2021 09:44

I’ve called out males before for this, and when was at an event and one made such comments to the young teen behind the tea counter, I spoke to the police and they went and had a word with them 🤬 well done for letting him know his behaviour was foul

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