My abusive ex asked for my new address when we moved house so that he can “update his will” for our daughter, who is now 7 and who he hadn’t seen since she was 6 months old. He has zero interest in seeing her, and over every email exchange we’ve ever had he’s never even asked how she is.
I told him he’s not entitled to our address, he has an address he can contact (my mums) if he needs to and that due to his bullying and harassment over the years I don’t want him to know where we live.
Last week was daughters birthday, and a load of cards arrives from his family. So he’s obviously found our address. Then, during the night a card appeared through the door from him. No address, just her name so he’s obviously travelled the hour to our new house to hand deliver the card. He has no intention of seeing her, he just wanted me to know he was at our house.
I’m so angry. I feel like I can never escape him. Is there anything I can do about this? I have no idea how he has found our new address.