Sorry for double thread I think I posted in wrong section.
Long story short my mums partner broke up with her in a horrible way (randomly in the pub when their friends popped to the bar!!! Even though she’d been home isolating all week so ample opportunity) together 14 years.
Less than two weeks later he has literally replaced her. Another woman sitting with their friends (and my partner!) st the social club etc.
Everybody knows. Mum suspects but doesn’t know. I now do.
I have to tell her don’t I???
Yanbu- of course tell her
Yabu- let her find out naturally
Now I’ve wrote this again I know it’s down to me.