Relationship

[Sclev]

Hi all, it’s not really an AIBU but I recently posted about my shit relationship. He has now proceeded to go through my private things. E.g- keep sakes, paperwork, jewellery boxes. Then accused me of cheating because I went mad about him going through my personal stuff. Anyway. I am leaving with my 3 year old after 5 years of being practically a single mother. Cleaner. Cooker. Washer. Bill payer. life organiser. Never going out because I get accused of all sorts! General mug. Having to rehire my beautiful cats. My question is. Do I leave when he’s at work. Or tell him?! Advise please?? X

Go whenever is the easiest and safest for you

Also like to add I do also work full time. Take child to nursery pick him up. Sperm donor couldn’t even tell you what nursery our son goes to!

Leave when he's out. And don't look back - he's already taken everything he can off you - contact Women's Aid to plan a safe escape.