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Life7 · 21/08/2021 12:32

I recently put an offer on a house which was accepted. Solicitor has been instructed and searches currently in progress. My mortgage is all set subject to my car finance being paid off before completion. I was hoping to complete in around 3-4 weeks time so hopefully won't be too long now. The mortgage offer will be withdrawn unless I can pay off the finance beforehand. They will still lend to me however it will be for a smaller amount and not enough to cover the house price or any other properties in the area really.

My mum had planned to get a credit card in her name and pay off the finance for me and then I would pay her back each month over the next couple of years. The balance is around £4,600.
I've just phoned the finance company up now to enquire about something, mentioned that I'd be paying the settlement figure within the next week or so and they've just told me they will not accept credit card payments!!! It has to be direct funds ffs!! I honestly don't know what to do at this point. My mum doesn't have that much in cash and I'm using all my savings to cover the deposit, broker and solicitors fees. I feel so angry at myself that I didn't check beforehand, but equally it doesn't say anything on the paperwork about not being able to pay it off with a credit card.

I've spent weeks trying to sort everything out and jumping through so many hoops to get this mortgage, it's not been easy at all but we finally got there and now this is going to ruin everything! I feel so gutted. I'm not even sure what I want from this thread, just so pissed off and upset.

OP posts:
balernobetty · 21/08/2021 20:29

Is your mum able to get a 0% money transfer on her credit card? That way she's still paying back the credit card but the funds paying off the finance would be a direct transfer from a bank account.
It's very common that you are unable to pay a debt with a debt

TractorAndHeadphones · 21/08/2021 20:40

Christ it’s been sorted RTFT people!

Changemaname1 · 21/08/2021 20:40

Some of the comments honestly Hmm
Clearly OP can afford it given she is currently paying out rent at 200 pound a month more than the mortgage will be

Glad you got sorted out OP congrats and enjoy your new home . Exciting ! 🥂

HintofVintagePink · 21/08/2021 20:50

Glad you got it sorted OP. If the lender has confirmation that the car is paid off and you haven’t done it by entering into a formal credit agreement with another lender, then they will be satisfied.
Ignore the negative posters and enjoy your new home! I hope Granny and Mum are first on the housewarming guest list!

AlmostSummer21 · 26/10/2021 13:10

@Life7

How are things going??

Puppermam · 26/10/2021 13:17

Get your mum to do a money transfer from her credit card to her bank account.

CurlyhairedAssassin · 26/10/2021 13:23

Glad it's all worked out. Things do seem quite tight for you financially. Are you paying enough into a pension each month? And into a contingency/home maintenance fund? Home ownership is expensive. Things need replacing. Is a lodger a possibility if you need extra funds to cover long term expenses of home ownership?

AlmostSummer21 · 26/10/2021 15:02

@Puppermam

Get your mum to do a money transfer from her credit card to her bank account.
@Puppermam. I know it's my fault for reviving the thread, but if you read the zOp's posts you'll see it was sorted out.

I just wanted to know how she's got on since then.

Saoirse82 · 26/10/2021 15:27

@CherryHug

The only daft person here is the OP trying to pay off credit with credit, and expects to get a mortgage.

You might not like it but I am entitled to my opinion.

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FlamingoDust · 26/10/2021 15:39

I'm glad you got sorted! It is so hard to get on the housing ladder and so frustrating especially when you know you can afford it but can't jump through the initial outlay hoops!

Simonjt · 26/10/2021 15:43

Have you declared that the finance is being cleared by taking out a loan?

(Sorry if you have answered this already)

stayathomer · 26/10/2021 21:56

I don't get people saying op might not be able to afford a mortgage when she is struggling to put up X times her mortgage payments in order to buy. She has put up a deposit and all the fees required, why on earth wouldn't she be able to afford a mortgage payment?!

Duchess379 · 26/10/2021 22:19

Well done Nan! Good luck 👍🏼

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